I spoke briefly a few days ago about how our generation uses words loosely. Well I guess the overarching idea there is that words can change meaning depending on who you are. And the word I would like to highlight is: important. Over the past two days, I’ve come across two usages of the word “important” that absolutely cracked me up, and I had to share them.
The first came at a performance by the Paul Taylor dance company at City Center. Great venue, great dancing, all around a wonderful cultural event. It was apparently one of the dancers final performance before retirement, and at the curtain call, she was showered with flowers and thunderous applause. The moment was incredibly touching, no doubt. (In fact, my eyes did kind of well up a bit. And I had NEVER heard of this woman before. Imagine what her FAMILY was feeling at that moment.) As the applause died down and the lights came up, my mom, my roommate and I started to file out, commenting on how cool it was to be here for that. A man standing in the row behind us then turned to me and said something like, “yea, you really lucked out, seeing the final performance of someone as IMPORTANT as her.”
I didn’t really know what to say to that comment, as I admittedly had no idea who she was. It wasn’t until I walked away that I found myself laughing at that guy’s comment. Important? IMPORTANT?! I suppose he’s a dance connosseur, and for someone who’s a big fan of Paul Taylor, ok, I’m sure she seems very important. But to say that to a complete stranger? Ugh, how…condescending or something. I would have completely understood if he had used a word like….oh, say beloved. Yes, that I will buy. But IMPORTANT? She’s a DANCER. And you sir, (I might have said), are not nearly important enough to throw around the word “important” like that. Or maybe he is. This IS New York after all. Either way, it tickled me a bit.
The second IMPORTANT run-in came today on my way to work. There’s a building going up on the block where my office is. A building full of condominiums. Expensive condominiums. So expensive in fact ($2-10 mill) that someone thought it would be a good idea to call them on the placard on the facade of the building “IMPORTANT Condominium Residences”. Oh. Dear. God. Important as in, “Hey, look at me in my multi-million dollar condo! Everybody look how IMPORTANT I am!”? You have GOT to be kidding me. No, actually, they are stonecold serious. I don’t even think I need to say anymore. I get that they are trying to attract a certain kind of person (i.e. balleerrrrrrr), but really…Get a grip.
One point here is, I suppose, it’s all relative, right? What is important to one person may not be important to another. Still, I can’t help but think that there are so many more important things in the world than dancers (whom I LOVE) and expensive apartments (which are spectacular). Or maybe that’s all so many of us are striving for: art and luxury. That is a pretty great life, I guess. But Important? I’d like to quote one of my favorite books, Le Petit Prince, by Antoine de St. Exupery:
L’essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.
I think that pretty much covers it.